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How to Pray

Speaker: Stephen Okpadah03 July 2026

Why Must We Pray?

The word prayer, or the exercise of prayer, was first referred to in the Bible in the book of Genesis 4VS26. This was when God gave another seed to Adam, after satan killed the first righteous seed, Abel. The aim of Satan was to disrupt the plan of God for mankind. Satan needed a vessel with which he might fully establish his kingdom on earth, and he was able to get hold of Cain. With Cain’s killing of Abel, unrighteousness attempted to usurp righteousness. But thereafter, in other to continue to establish HIS presence and aim on earth which HE created, YAHWEH gave Seth to Adam and Eve. The book of Genesis 4VS25 says “and Adam knew his wife again, and she bare a son, and called his name Seth: For God, she said, had appointed me another seed instead of Abel whom Cain slew”. Seth was God’s counter-establishment to Satan’s resolve to dominate the earth and establish his system. The children of Seth began to hunger for the truth. Two binary establishments therefore existed. The first is that which sought after satan, the God of the world. This was the lineage of Cain. The other was the lineage of Seth who began to seek YAHWEH. Genesis 4VS26 tells us that “And to Seth, to him also there was born a son; and he called his name Enos: then began men to call upon the name of the LORD.”

Calling upon the name of the LORD amounted to men beginning to pray. They began to seek communion with the ALMIGHTY. They began to seek that fellowship which their grand ancestors, Adam and Eve must have narrated to them. I mean their communion with God in Eden. With the fall of man, and his extrication from Eden, the height which God placed man from the beginning, the place of prayer became that location where humans were able to meet God. Prayer is a communion with God. It is reverence. Prayer connotes that we are dependent on God. It is an exercise done to remind God that we cannot do without HIM. It is an activity done in recognition of God’s sovereignty. Prayer is total submission to God. A Christian who does not pray is a dying entity. Not praying creates a distance between you and God. Whoever does not pray unto God is of the devil. This is because, prayer, continuous communion with God is what depreciates our alignment with the world. That is the reason in Matthew 26VS41, Jesus warns Peter and the two sons of Zebedee that “watch and pray that ye enter not into temptation”. The prayer place is a location where divinity and mortals interact. It is a location where they meet.

Many a time, we see prayer as a medium through which requests are made to God. Indeed, requests are made in the process of praying. Petitions are brought forward. The book of Philippians 4VS6 says, “do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving make your requests be made known to God”.  We must also understand that request is only subsumed in prayer. It is only a part of prayer. The book of Philippians says it is in supplication with thanksgiving that we ought to make our requests known to God.

A close analysis of the Lord’s Prayer suggests the need to go beyond making only requests. Matthew 6VS9-13 says,

Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, thy Kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven, give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

Only three clauses of this prayer focus on personal needs. Only Verse Eleven which says: Give us this day our daily bread, the first and second clauses in Verse Thirteen that says: And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil are about personal requests. All others focus on the LORD. I now reflect on a major character in the Bible whose prayer strategy can be used by believers, as a template for effective prayer exercise.

 

Hannah: A Paradigm of a Godly Prayer

In Israel, lived a man called Elkanah. Elkanah was a Levite, of the lineage of Priesthood (1st Chronicle 6VS33-38). However, the book of 1st Samuel 1VS1 seems to suggest that Elkanah was an Ephraimite. Perhaps, this was because Elkanah lived in the mountains of Ephraim (1st Samuel 1VS1). We must understand that the Levites had no land as such, lived in diverse lands across Israel. This must be the reason that 1st Samuel referred to him as an Ephraimite. He was indeed a Levite. We must not forget that the Levites were a cursed people. Jacob cursed their grand ancestor, Levi because he collaborated with his brother Simeon, to kill Shechem and Hamor in retaliation against Shechem raping Dinah. This narrative is fully captured in the book of Genesis 34.  We will not have the time to interrogate the single action that later led to an overturn and or disruption of that curse more than 400 years later. This action happened close to Mount Sinai, the mountain of God.

Elkanah the Levite had two wives, Peninnah and Hannah. 1st Samuel 1VS2 tells us that “..Peninnah had children, but Hannah had none”. Hannah was aware that God was the giver of children. Of course, she would have been taught how in the book of Genesis, the first book of the Torah, how Rachel, Jacob’s womb was locked up by God. Not until her womb was opened by God, Rachel could not birth Joseph, and later, Benjamin. Hannah engaged in a shift in the direction of her prayers. 1st Samuel 1VS10-11 tells us that “Hannah was in deep anguish, crying bitterly as she prayed to the LORD. And she made this vow: O LORD  if thou wilt indeed look on the affliction of thine handmaid, and remember me, and not forget thine handmaid, but wilt give unto thine handmaid a man child, then I will give him unto the LORD all the days of his life, and there shall no razor come upon his head”.

Hannah was genuine in her prayer. She was specific and truthful. She wanted a son for the service of the LORD. She knew that within the religious context of Israel at that time, most male children played major roles in the house of God than female children did. There is something spectacular about Hannah’s prayer. There was a shift from O LORD give me a child of my own, to O LORD give us a child of our own. She created a platform of dedication of what the LORD had not given unto her yet, unto the LORD. For Hannah, “O LORD, you are not just giving me my property, but you are using me as an instrument to produce your servant. This politics of: from my own O LORD to your own O LORD produced a result.

1st Samuel 1VS20 says “and in due time, Hannah gave birth to a son. She named him Samuel, for she said, I asked the LORD for him”. This same chapter articulates how Hannah took Samuel to Eli, and thereby, fulfilling her vow. Samuel therefore joined the Levitical Priesthood-of course, Samuel was a Levite since his father, Elkanah was a Levite.

1st John 5VS14 says “and this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to His will, he heareth us”. Here, the author of the book of 1st John relays the importance of the Will of God in whatever supplication we make unto God. His will is imperative in the possibilities of our prayers being answered.  Now, let us put it like this:  God might destine you with the gift of the prophetic, and to take the territories of Asia and Africa, while you keep praying for God to open the channel for you to migrate to the United States of America or Australia for greener pastures. At this time, when your prayers for the United States and Australia remained answered, your thoughts will be that God does not answer prayers. I want to let you know that your prayers were not answered because you did not pray correctly. You prayed from the position of selfishness, from the monies that you hope to gain from migrating to North America and Australia.

A man once asked my wife this question: “would you like it if we returned to Nigeria because the United Kingdom refused to renew our visas to stay?” The man’s wife was very quick to reply: “we should not even think about it, that it amounted to tragedy”. The man smiled at her, and said that he had told God that only HIS will should be done in relation to visa renewal. God is our FATHER. HE only wants the best for his children. Yahweh tells us in Jeremiah 29VS11 “for I know the thoughts that I have towards you, says the LORD, they are plans for good and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope”.

Conclusion

Instead of praying LORD give me a child so that Peninnah would know that I have one, why not pray LORD, give me a child that all glory might be given unto you? Instead of praying LORD, I need a car, so that my neighbours might know that I have arrived and made it in life, why not pray LORD, I need a car that will ease the Evangelistic work that I have begun. It is imperative that we know the will of the LORD for us, so we can pray in line with HIS will for us. Our prayers become effective when they align with HIS will for us.

Prayer

Teach us to pray right Oh Lord, that we might fall not into temptation (Matthew 26VS41).